If you are dealing with a narcissistic person you probably already know what I’m about to say. For those who are new to this type of manipulation and abuse let me clue you in on some helpful things. Allow me to help you better understand the type of evil you have started to deal with.
For me, I would have loved the warning signs and the heads up. I for one, wasn’t prepared for this type of evil that would soon impact my personal life and my family’s life.
Narcissists will falsely accuse you of things that they are guilty of. They will lie about you and have no problem with recruiting people to hate you with them. With no hesitation they will accuse you of things that will make you sick to your stomach.
Narcissists will shift responsibility because they are awful about taking responsibility for their actions. They see no problems with the way they conduct themselves.
Narcissists will manipulate you by treating you nicely and by going out of their way to do something nice for you. Soon enough they will turn the tables. You will soon realize that their niceness was just a tool that was being used in order to manipulate you.
Narcissists will tarnish your name at whatever cost. They will go to extreme lengths to make you look like the bad guy.
Narcissists will never be happy with anything that you do. It doesn’t matter how well you do something the narcissist will never be pleased with anything you do.
Narcissists will use you as an excuse as to why they are acting the way they are. This is because they refuse to take responsibility for anything that they do.
Narcissists will purposefully set you up for failure. They like to see you fail because this makes them feel better about themselves.
Narcissists will lie to strangers and make themselves look like the victim.
Narcissists will gaslight you. Gaslighting is when the narcissist makes you feel crazy after you’re the one who they are mentally abusing. They make you feel as if the abuse was your fault. They will twist the story in order to make you feel like it was your fault.
Narcissists parents will go to the extreme and use their own child as a weapon to hurt other people. They manipulate the child in such a way that it creates mental problems for the child. The child will often struggle with depression because of this abuse from their parent.
Narcissists parents will create chaos for their children that they will eventually have to deal with at a later age. This type of abuse is damaging to the child. However, this doesn’t stop the narcissist. Remember that they do not take responsibility for their actions.
I could honestly go on and on about this. However, I don’t have an eternity to blog. So I decided to list just a few things that narcissistic people do and the things I’ve experienced. I’ve also listed things that I’ve personally been involved with and have witnessed.
If you are dealing with a narcissistic person just know that you are not alone. You are not alone in this exhausting battle with this type of mental abuse and manipulation.