I have been receiving emails about how to cope through parental alienation and how to deal with the grieving process as an Alienated Stepmom. I never know what type of advice to give Alienated Stepmoms because honestly I’m still figuring out how to deal with mine.
I think there will always be some type of grieving for Alienated Stepmoms because our families were ripped apart by a parent who decided that hate was stronger than their love for their children.
One thing that helped me with the grieving process was having a blog that was dedicated to my bonus daughter. I created this blog to show my bonus daughter that we did care about her and that her Dad never abandoned her.
Over time I stopped blogging because I felt like it wasn’t going to matter. I felt like it would be viewed as a bad thing by the Biomom. So I stopped. However, I have opened the blog back up but I haven’t posted anything yet.
I haven’t posted anything yet because I don’t know what to say or anything. My bonus daughter is almost 17 because I don’t know what to say other than we miss you and we love you.
So here is the blog that I created for my bonus daughter. It’s a reminder that we never abandoned her. We’ve always been here for her. These were little notes from me to her.