I hardly ever talk about my stepmom journey because it’s painful. You can keep your judgemental comments to yourself because I’ve heard plenty of them. This new blog of mine is a place to release what is on my mind. Keep in mind not everything will be exactly how it “should” be. That’s one lesson that I’ve learned during my stepmom journey. Sometimes the behavior of a toxic parent will ruin your family and there’s nothing you can do about it. No matter how hard you fight to get your family back, there’s no winning with evil.
As a stepmom I want to move on to the other parts of my life that is happy. When you can’t change something, then it’s time to focus on something you can change. My peace of mind is something I cherish! Since March of last year I have completely let go of what my “blended family” should be. It’s simply not going to happen due to the Biomom and her toxic behavior. You can read more about that whole situation on my other stepmom blogs that are listed under the Stepmom Life tab. It’s not my responsibility to keep this evil person happy. It’s my responsibility to keep myself happy. It’s my responsibility to make sure that I focus on the good parts of my life.